Control

When Cassie first approached me about starting her own blog, I told her that I'd think about it and get back to her. A week went by and Les and I engaged in several after-the-kids-are-in-bed, parents only discussions.  We decided that, as long as she follows our rules, she deserves a chance to express her opinion.  Cassie happily agreed to the following rules:  She can't mention the names of any children outside our immediate family or inlcude identifying information; she can't say anything that is deliberately hurful; and she still is not allowed to have unsupervised internet access. 

Cassie has read and reread "Harriet the Spy," and seen both versions of the movie.  She is well aware of the consequences of "yellow journalism."  She is, however, just 10 years old.  So, I do have some concern.  Here are the benefits that I see from this project.  First, blogging will help her spelling (hopefully!).  It will also help reinforce the steps of the writing process - edit before publishing!  And, she will now have a venue for her angst, other than her mother.

Yes, I'm reluctant to give up control.  Several years ago, when she was unhappy with the school playground equipment and wanted to organize a student protest, we said, "NO."  Last fall, when she wanted to write a letter of protest to the principal about the ban on "Silly Bands" at school, we again said, "NO."  But, I also want Cassie to have a chance to spread her wings and learn to grow responsibly.  I'm happy she realizes that in our country she has a voice.  And, I'm anxious to see how she will exercise this privilege.